Welcome to the
AA Beginners Group
'Learn How To Stop Drinking'
Meeting

I am pasting this
Meeting Agenda
http://www.aabeginners.com/grouper/agenda.html
into the chat box right now.


My name is __________.
My last drink was on ____________.



Join me in a moment of silence for those who are affected with alcoholism...




Opening Prayer

Heavenly Father,
We ask for healing for all who are affected with alcoholism
and for anyone here today that needs help.
Give us what we need to permanently stop drinking alcohol.
We ask that you remove any insane thinking we may have.
Give us eyes to see and ears to hear.
Open the eyes of our understanding.
Give us strength to help one another on this journey.
Amen.





A.A. PREAMBLE

Alcoholics Anonymous is a fellowship of men and women who share their
experience, strength and hope with each other that they may solve their common
problem and help others to recover from alcoholism.

The only requirement for membership is a desire to stop drinking.

There are no dues or fees for A.A. membership; we are self-supporting through our
own contributions. A.A. is not allied with any sect, denomination, politics,
organization or institution; does not wish to engage in any controversy,
neither endorses nor opposes any causes.

Our primary purpose is to stay sober and help other alcoholics to achieve sobriety.


Copyright The AA Grapevine, Inc. Reprinted with permission






Take Caution - Disclaimer

If you are still drinking and are planning to stop,
you may want to ask your doctor for help to detox! They can help you.

Quitting drinking can cause your body to experience sever medical issues.
It is possible to have seizures and even worse, including death.
We are not doctors here. Search out the advice of your doctor first.

AA p. xxvi - (From The Doctor's Opinion)
...we favor hospitalization for the alcoholic who is very jittery or befogged.
...it is imperative that a man's brain be cleared before he is approached,
as he has then a better chance of understanding and accepting what we have to offer.


Cooperation Without Affiliation

Also... Many times people are pressured to go to AA by the courts for drunk driving.
That does not mean they are alcoholics or even have a desire to stop drinking.
If you are one of these people, we don't want to force you to stay.
To get your proof of attendance sheet send an email with your full name to:

aabeginnersgroup@gmail.com.

If you do NOT want to be here, we understand. No matter what, the meeting is open to you.
You do not have to stay for the entire meeting to get an attendance sheet,
but if you have a desire to stop drinking you are welcome to stay and participate in todays discussion.






Chapter 11: A Vision For You

AA 1st Ed p.165, 2nd, 3rd & 4th Ed p.151
...then would come oblivion and the awful awakening to face the hideous Four Horsemen, Terror, Bewilderment, Frustration, Despair. Unhappy drinkers who read this page will understand!

The Doctor's Opinion

AA 1st Ed p.5, 2nd, 3rd & 4th Ed p.xxvi
...the general opinion seems to be that most chronic alcoholics are doomed.

AA 1st Ed p.5, 3rd & 4th Ed p.xxix
...once a psychic change has occurred, the very same person who seemed doomed, who had so many problems he despaired of ever solving them, suddenly finds himself easily able to control his desire for alcohol, the only effort necessary being that required to follow a few simple rules. (Referring to the 12 Steps of AA.)







First Things First

The first drink triggers the compulsion to drink more and more; it deludes us into thinking we can drink another safely, then another and another. How do we avoid just that first drink for at least one day? Here are some suggestions:

  1. Ask God or Higher Power for help to stay sober today. AA p.164 ...your real reliance is always on Him.

  2. The Twenty-Four Hour plan.
    • Work on NOT picking up the 1st drink today.
    • You CANNOT get drunk if you dont pick up the 1st drink.
    • Beware of subtle thoughts that try to pursuade you to drink.

  3. Get a copy of the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous. You can buy one or get a free PDF at aa.org.

  4. Visit groups like 1939AA.com for a deeper study into the AA program.

  5. Recovered members' phone #'s are being put in the chat box now.

  6. Ask a recovered member to help you follow the clear-cut directions on taking the 12 Steps in the Big Book.

  7. 2nd, 3rd & 4th Ed AA p. xvii ...strenuous work, one alcoholic with another, was vital to permanent recovery.

  8. Perhaps you could attend a 12 Step Workshop this weekend. Details are being posted in the chat box.

Saturday 11:00 AM EST
AA Beginners 12 Step Workshop
6 HOURS Duration
Zoom Id: 87577128870
Password: alcoholic

Saturday 1:00 PM EST
AA Beginners 12 Step Workshop
6 HOURS Duration
Zoom Id: 838 6419 2971
Password: alcoholic

Sunday 11:00 AM EST
AA Beginners 12 Step Workshop
6 HOURS Duration
Zoom Id: 87577128870
Password: alcoholic

More info at www.aabeginners.com

Also for an in-depth study: http://1939aa.com



















To the new people.

Help us to understand your circumstances.

Can you answer the following questions?
  • What brings you to AA?

  • Do you think you are powerless over alcohol?

  • Do you have a desire to stop drinking?

  • What lengths are you willing to go for lasting sobriety.

  • Do you have any questions?


















AA 1st Ed p.30, 2nd, 3rd & 4th Ed p.20
We have recovered from a hopeless condition of mind and body. If you are an alcoholic who wants to get over it, you may already be asking - What do I have to do? It is the purpose of this book to answer such questions specifically.

Step 1. We admitted we were powerless over alcohol -
that our lives had become unmanageable.

AA 1st Ed p.34, 2nd, 3rd & 4th Ed p.24
The fact is that most alcoholics, for reasons yet obscure, have lost the power of choice in drink. Our so-called will power becomes practically nonexistent. We are unable, at certain times, to bring into our consciousness with sufficient force the memory of the suffering and humiliation of even a week or a month ago. We are without defense against the first drink.

AA 1st Ed p.45-46, 2nd, 3rd & 4th Ed p.34
This is the baffling feature of alcoholism as we know it, this inability to leave it alone, no matter how great the necessity or the wish.

AA 1st Ed p.41, 2nd, 3rd & 4th Ed p.30
We learned that we had to fully concede to our innermost selves that we were alcoholics. This is the first step in recovery. We alcoholics are men and women who have lost the ability to control our drinking. We know that no real alcoholic ever recovers control.

AA 1st Ed p.56, 2nd, 3rd & 4th Ed p.44
If, when you honestly want to, you find you cannot quit entirely, or if when drinking, you have little control over the amount you take, you are probably alcoholic. If that be the case, you may be suffering from an illness which only a spiritual experience will conquer.

AA 1st Ed p.57, 2nd, 3rd & 4th Ed p.45
Lack of power, that was our dilemma. We had to find a power by which we could live, and it had to be a Power greater than ourselves. Obviously. But where and how were we to find this Power? Well, thats exactly what this book is about. Its main object is to enable you to find a Power greater than yourself which will solve your problem.

AA 1st Ed p.21-22, 2nd, 3rd & 4th Ed p.12
My friend suggested what then seemed a novel idea. He said, Why don't you choose your own conception of God? It was only a matter of being willing to believe in a Power greater than myself. Nothing more was required of me to make my beginning.

AA 1st Ed p.71, 2nd, 3rd & 4th Ed p.59
But there is One who has all power, that One is God. May you find him now!



















Step 2. Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.


AA 1st Ed p.6, 2nd, 3rd & 4th Ed p.xxv (The Doctor's Opinion)
...the phenomenon of craving at once became paramount to all other interests so that the important appointment was not met. These men were not drinking to escape, they were drinking to overcome a craving beyond their mental control.

AA 1st Ed p.46, 2nd, 3rd & 4th Ed p.35
So we shall describe some of the mental states that precede a relapse into drinking, for obviously this is the crux of the problem.

AA 1st Ed p.48, 2nd, 3rd & 4th Ed p.37
But there was always the curious mental phenomenon that parallel with our sound reasoning there inevitably ran some insanely trivial excuse for taking the first drink. Our sound reasoning failed to hold us in check.

How do we get past this?

AA 1st Ed p.55, 2nd, 3rd & 4th Ed p. 43
The alcoholic at certain times has no effective mental defense against the first drink. Except in few rare cases, neither he nor any other human being can provide such a defense. His defense must come from a Higher Power.

AA 1st Ed p.72, 2nd, 3rd & 4th Ed p.60
(a) That we were alcoholic and could not manage our own lives. (step 1)
(b) That probably no human power could have relieved our alcoholism. (step 2)
(c) That God could and would if He were sought. (step 2)

AA 1st Ed p.69, 2nd, 3rd & 4th Ed p.57
Even so has God restored us all to our right minds. Some of us grow into it more slowly. But He has come to all who have honestly sought Him. When we drew near to Him He disclosed Himself to us!

AA 1st Ed p.54, 2nd, 3rd & 4th Ed p.42
Quite as important was the discovery that spiritual principles would solve all my problems.










Step 3. Made a decision to turn our will and our lives
over to the care of God as we understood him.

AA 1st Ed p.72, 2nd, 3rd & 4th Ed p.60
The first requirement is that we be convinced that any life run on self-will can hardly be a success.

AA 1st Ed p.74-75, 2nd, 3rd & 4th Ed p.62
Selfishness - self-centeredness! That, we think, is the root of our troubles.

Driven by a hundred forms of
  • fear,
  • self-delusion,
  • self-seeking,
  • and self-pity...
we step on the toes of our fellows and they retaliate.

This is the how and the why of it. First of all, we had to quit playing God. It didn't work.

AA 1st Ed p.75, 2nd, 3rd & 4th Ed p.63
We decided that hereafter in this drama of life, God was going to be our Director.
  • He is the principle; we are his agents.
  • He is the Father and we are His children.
Most good ideas are simple.

When we sincerely take such a position, all sorts of remarkable things follow.
  • Being all powerful, He provides what we need, if we keep close to Him and perform his work well.
  • We became less and less interested in ourselves, our little plans and designs.
  • We became interested in seeing what we could contribute to life.
  • As we felt new power flow in...
  • as we enjoyed peace of mind...
  • as we discovered we could face life successfully...
  • as we became conscious of His presence...
  • we began to lose our fear of today, tomorrow or the hereafter.
  • we were reborn.
We were now at Step Three.
We thought well before taking this step making sure that we were ready;
that we could abandon ourselves utterly to Him.


You can join us in the 3rd Step Prayer now.
God, I offer myself to Thee, to build with me and do with me as Thou wilt.
Relieve me of the bondage of self, that I may better do Thy will.
Take away my difficulties, that victory over them may bear witness to those I would help
of Thy Power, Thy Love, and Thy Way of Life.
May I do Thy will always!

















Open Floor.


For the benefit of the newer people here today,
Can you answer the following questions?
Step 1
  • What brings you to AA?

  • Do you think you are powerless over alcohol?

  • Do you have a desire to stop drinking?

  • What lengths are you willing to go for lasting sobriety.

Step 2
  • After a period of sobriety, has your thinking ever led you to take the 1st drink again?

  • Have you had any relief from the insane thinking?

  • Do you believe a God can restore you to sane thinking?

Step 3
  • Have you made the 3rd Step decision?

  • How do you feel after the 3rd Step prayer?

Steps 4-12
  • Are you ready to move forward with the rest of the steps?

Do you have any questions?

















If you would like a recovered member to help you with the 12 Steps,
Join us for one of the Zoom workshops listed below.
(We go through All 12 Steps)..



12 Step Workshop Schedule

Sunday 11:00 AM EST
AA Beginners Sponsorship Workshop ALL 12 STEPS
6 HOURS Duration
Zoom Id: 87577128870
Password: alcoholic


Saturday 1:00 PM EST
AA Beginners Sponsorship Workshop ALL 12 STEPS
6 HOURS Duration
Zoom Id: 838 6419 2971
Password: alcoholic



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    Thank everyone for attending todays meeting.

    We close with a Prayer.

    10th and 11th Step Prayer
    Heavenly Father,
    When selfishness, dishonesty, resentment and fear crop up in our lives,
    please remove them. Divorce our minds from this type of thinking.
    We ask for forgiveness and inquire what corrective measures we should take.
    We ask for inpiration, intuitive thoughts or decisions based on Your will.
    All through the day, show us what our next step is to be.
    Give us what we need to take care of our problems.
    Grant us the right thoughts and the right actions.
    Thy Will be done.
    Amen


    3rd Step Prayer
    God, I offer myself to Thee, to build with me and do with me as Thou wilt.
    Relieve me of the bondage of self, that I may better do Thy will.
    Take away my difficulties, that victory over them may bear witness to those I would help
    of Thy Power, Thy Love, and Thy Way of Life.
    May I do Thy will always!


    7th Step Prayer
    My Creator, I am now willing that you should have all of me, good and bad.
    I pray that you now remove from me every single defect of character which stands in the way of my usefulness
    to you and my fellows. Grant me strength, as I go out from here, to do your bidding. Amen.


    Our Father, who is in Heaven, Holy is Your Name.
    Your Kingdom come. Your will be done, on earth as it is in Heaven.
    Give us this day our daily bread
    and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us.
    Don't let us fall into temptation and deliver us from evil.
    Yours is the Kingdom, the Power, and the Glory Forever,
    AMEN.